I’ve read a lot of money books in my life.
Some are great.
Some writers are self-aware.
Others are just clueless.
One overriding theme in particular disturbs me.
Even the “gurus” fall into the trap.
They ignore the personal part.
They forget it’s “personal finance”.
Not just “finance”.
They spout off about how everyone needs to be like them.
How their methods work and everyone should follow.
I’ve also noticed several book titles as well.
- “The Last Book You’ll Ever Need” on…
- “The Only Book You’ll Ever have to Read” about…
- “The X% Solution” to….
To be honest, it annoys the hell out of me.
Personal Finance Advice = Clothes Shopping
You know what else annoys people?
Shopping for clothes
Yeah, yeah I know, it sounds strange, but is it really?
Seriously, there are a lot of parallels:
- The quality varies depending on the source
- Both require a style that fits your personality
- Each can be frustrating to deal with
- Everyone thinks you should do what they do
- You can lose a lot of time to either
Not so different after all, and I’m not as nuts as you thought when you first clicked on the title! 😀
But wait, I have even more, in-depth analyses that will prove the correlation and leave you with absolutely no doubt as to the validity of my comparison.Looking for personal finance advice online = clothes shopping? You're damn right!Click To Tweet
Shine The Proper Light
It just looked….different in the store.
How many times have you uttered that statement when you got home from a shopping trip?
After you’ve finally settled on an outfit or just a single item and you finally get home to wear it out and…
It looked so much different in the store.
That’s because all (or most) department and clothing retailers use fluorescent lighting due to it’s cheap maintenance and overhead costs.
It makes colors look way different than in natural light.
Which is how you will be seeing the clothing in action anyway.
The same thing happens with personal financial advice.
You read an article and are super stoked to down to implementing what you read.
Then you sit down and…..
This is very common with taxes where “experts” scream:
- Make donations to get a tax deduction!
- Write off your extra travel and office costs!
- Buy a house to write off the interest & taxes!
- Etc, etc, etc….(they all sound similar)
The problem is, hardly anyone every mentions the small little details that make all that reading and excitement obsolete.
(I guess it’s part of the “don’t sweat the small stuff crap” even though the small stuff tends to snowball into huge stuff, but I digress)
So when you sit down you’re like:
- Damn, I don’t itemize so I can’t deduct any of the money/stuff I donated! Why didn’t they say I had to itemize?
- Oh, yeah, I do itemize so I can deduct the stuff my boss doesn’t reimburse me for. SHIT, I don’t have expenses that add up to more than 2% of my AGI to deduct it. Why didn’t they say I needed to have that much to get the deduction?
- Woo Hoo, we bought a house and have crazy-low payments. FUCK, our itemized deductions aren’t more than the standard deduction. Why didn’t they tell us that that could happen?
Wow, that’s some similar stuff–things look different when you shine the proper light on ’em.
Let’s look at another case, shall we?
Tailored To Your Custom Needs
B-b-b-b-ut it looked so good on the display!
You see an awesome suit or dress or whatever on the mannequin and are like “that’s me right there”.
You go grab your size and head to the check-out line.
A week goes by and it’s time for the wedding/bar or bat mitzvah, anniversary party, or whatever you bought it for.
And it doesn’t fit right.
In fact, it looks horrible compared to what it looked like in-store.
Why is that?
For starters, those plastic bodies area easy to fit clothes on: they don’t move, or slouch.
And the secret sauce–the clothes can be pinned and tailored for the most “perfect” look possible.
Just like those commercials you see where the food looks perfect–it’s fake non-food products made to look like the most appetizing, mouth-watering version possible.
It’s all a play on perception.
The same thing happens with personal finance.
The goal with many sites is to first gain your attention with a catchy headline (I’m being facetious and dramatic to make a point here):
- 1 Zillion Ways To Earn $1000 Today
- Learn To Time The Stock Market And Live Like A Celebrity
- Put Up A Website Today And You’ll Be Rich Overnight
- Start A Business And You’ll Never Have To Worry About Money Again
Then they go on to toss out a bunch of stuff that makes you drool uncontrollably at the very thought of it:
- Oh my God, I can live like (insert fake famous person here)!
- YES! I can start a business and start farting rainbows and unicorns!
- I finally get to live out my Field Of Dreams Fantasy…just with a website, but woo hoo!
- I’ve always wanted to swim in money like Scrooge McDuck!
But then you actually start to realize that you don’t fit the same profile as the author.
You’re single so you can’t save money by insuring multiple cars under the same insurance policy.
Or going by the same instance, you don’t own your home so you can’t do that bundling thing to bring down your insurance costs that way either.
Or, you’re married with young kids with tons of extra responsibilities unlike me, as single guy with no kids who can use money differently.
Perhaps the strategy requires you to take risks that you aren’t comfortable with.
Basically, you can’t just blindly follow financial advice (this isn’t politics or religion after all).
The person writing may be in a very different situation than you and when they write about successes they are speaking solely about their very specific situation.
The same way a suit or dress off the rack won’t fit everyone the same way, financial advice isn’t going to apply to everyone who reads it.
What you need to is take that overall message and snip and hem parts of it so it’s tailored to how you live and your personality.Personal finance should never be approached as a one-size-fits-all solution or suggestion.Click To Tweet
There’s No Standardization
My other ones are the same size and fit perfectly, why don’t these?
I have a confession to make, and my mother always yells at me about it.
I buy stuff without ever trying it on.
I’m lazy and stupid that way.
And I can freely admit it.
I mean, if I’m a size 32 waist in pants, then every pair labeled “32” should fit me the same, right?
Same as everything marked “small”, “medium”, “large”, “9 1/2”, “12” etc.
You would think that, but you would be dead wrong!
There is apparently no standardization when it comes to labeling clothing and footwear.
It sucks, but it’s true.
And the same thing applies to personal finance as well.
There is no standardization regarding terminology for example
These terms are highly subjective:
They can mean vastly different things to different people.
Heck, over time your own definition of each can change as you experience different things in life.
A better example comes not even from money or clothing but something super popular like obstacle courses.
Some people who have been training for years view “success” as nothing short of finishing first.
Others, say the formerly overweight office worker or the woman who had a brain tumor removed would consider “success” just making it onto the course at all.
The thing to remember is that just because any particular source frames any of these terms in one way, you don’t have to adjust your own thinking about it.
It’s ok to be your own person–in fact, I encourage it, and not following what others do, or say, or think all the time.Everyone is different. What you consider success may be the next person's mediocrity.Click To Tweet
Quality Varies (Greatly) By Source
I knew I should’ve paid more attention to the quality!
Ah, yes…the “quality” issue.
It’s funny, because people who are supposed to be “money experts” are averse to spending on quality and prefer spending on the cheapest quality things.
To me that’s crazy.
I even explain why on The Simple Dollar in an article about cheesy money sayings which are true so you know my point has validity or else that big a site would never publish it!
So, think of it this way:
You can buy a “famous label” jacket made of high quality fabric and accessories (ie: buttons and zippers) for $300 and it’ll last at least 5 years.
Or you can buy a cheap one for $100 that you know will only last maybe a year and you’ll have to replace it several times over the years.
By choosing the higher quality version, you may spend more money up front, but over the same hypothetical 5-year period, you’ll end up saving $200 in replacement costs.
This question of quality also happens to come up when looking at personal finance articles.
Is the person writing about something they actually have experience with?
And by experience, I mean REAL experience…not someone who signed up for a credit card and got a free flight and now promotes themselves as a “travel hacker”!
Or someone who used an app one time to prepare their own taxes and now goes around calling themselves a “tax expert”.
It may seem a bit silly, I know, but the reality is that on the surface there is no way to tell who is what based off of cursory glances at a website.
You need to spend a little time reading the “about me” pages to see if there is any revelations about the author’s background.
I, for example, come out and declare my background straight away: degree in accounting, years of public accounting experience with tax prep and small business consulting as the main focuses.
I can even show you a copy of my diploma!
Others…not so much.
It becomes a little bit harder to know who you can trust with certain things.
But the good thing is, when you do find someone you can trust, you generally get more out of their content because of that level of trust.
And it’s very similar to the jacket example; you get more value from a site you have vetted up front–even if you spend a little more time doing so–than by continually having to waste time on sites run by people with no business talking about what they do.
When you have that trust factor you can be pretty sure you wont have a situation where you spend time on their site only to come across conflicting information from someone else–then learn the later was correct and you wasted all that time!Vetting the sources of money advice you find online can save you time and headaches later on!Click To Tweet